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We all face daily challenges in today's complicated and demanding world. ACA’s Counseling Corner Blog offers thoughtful ideas, suggestions, and strategies for helping you to live a happier and healthier life.

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  • Have You Been Losing The "Joy" In Your Life?

    Mar 12, 2018
    We all like to feel happy with our lives, but there can often be times when things have us feeling a bit blue instead. While there's no way to make all the stresses and problems of daily life just disappear, there are things we can do to help ourselves more easily handle them and to end up feeling the joy we all should be experiencing every day.
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  • Helping A Child Handle Disappointment

    Mar 05, 2018
    For young children any number of things can leave them miserable and upset. Someone at school said something, they weren't invited to a party, or weren't picked for a sports team. Many of the things that leave a child despondent can seem trivial to adults, but are very real to the child. Helping the child cope with such events is an important part of good parenting.
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  • Knowing When To Ask For Help

    Mar 01, 2018
    Almost no one likes to admit that he or she is unable to cope with all the things life might be throwing at them. Yet virtually all of us can find ourselves in circumstances where we don't really know what to do next and where we find our quality of life is truly suffering. Here is some advice on how to handle such situations.
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  • It Doesn't Always Have To Be A Teen vs. Parent Fight

    Feb 05, 2018
    The teenage years can often be trying times for parents. As children grow and learn to be more independent, they often are in conflict with their parents' rules and desires. While there is no way to eliminate all the conflict, here are some ideas on how to make things more manageable for both parent and teen.
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  • Laughing Your Way To Better Health

    Feb 05, 2018
    "Want to hear a funny joke?" That's a question that many of us don't hear enough. Things that make us smile and laugh are actually important ingredients in a healthy live. Laughing not only makes us feel happy while it's happening, it also turns out it has longer-lasting positive psychological and physiological effects. Here are some ideas to get more "funny" into your life.
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  • Valentine's Day - A Good Excuse To Improve A Relationship

    Feb 05, 2018
    Unfortunately, it's fairly easy to get "used to" and very comfortable in even the most romantic of relationships. That's often not a good thing. Relationships tend to die when one or both partners begin to feel forgotten or neglected. Why not use this Valentine's Day as an excuse to help revive a relationship?
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  • Learning To Listen To The Silence

    Feb 05, 2018
    In most of our lives there's a lot of noise, virtually every minute of every day. Researchers now tell us that trying to find some quiet time in our daily lives can provide a number of benefits, including very real health benefits. Here are some times on how to help "quiet down" your life.
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  • Helping To Improve Your Child's Self-Concept

    Jan 05, 2018
    Your child's view of the world is a lot different than yours. As children enter early adolescence it's not uncommon for them to feel lonely, rejected by classmates, and to feel that whatever classmates say and do has a much greater impact that what their parents are saying. It can be a tough age, for both the child and the parent, but there are ways you can help smooth some of the rough edges.
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  • Don't Let The Winter Blahs Get The Best Of You

    Jan 05, 2018
    It can be easier on a bright, warm spring or summer day to feel lively, excited and anxious to get out and enjoy the world. But with the cold gray days of winter it's not uncommon to feel a bit depressed and not ready to do much of anything. Here are some tips on how to keep such feelings from controlling your life, as well as what to look for when such feelings begin to present a major problem.
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  • Getting Kids To Do Their Chores Doesn't Make You A Bad Person

    Jan 05, 2018
    Once a child's family chores might have meant getting water from the well, bringing in firewood for the stove and similar types of chores. Today, assigned family chores are more likely to involve taking out the trash, or making one's bed or keeping toys picked up. Yes, such family chores are much easier, but assigning those chores and seeing that they're completed is still essential to teaching responsibility and other important lessons.
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