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Shadows of Grief: Experiences of Loss Within Transitional Families
Peggy P. Whiting and Elizabeth James
Grief reconciliation may be seen as the reconstruction of one’s life story, a personal meaning making activity that occurs within a social context (Nadeau, 1997; Neimeyer, 2001). Family, as a concept, might be defined broadly as the web of social interaction within which we live, grieve, and heal. Grief has the capacity to isolate family members from each other, to separate and divide instead of integrating and bridging. Families who are blending as a result of transitions such as death or divorce have unique characteristics of grief. They often need counseling assistance in understanding the diverse perspectives coexisting within the family unit. In order to extend best practice intervention, a counselor will be well served to explore models of grief as they apply to families in transition and to utilize the concept of shadow grief when assisting families in understanding each other. The hope, from a counseling perspective, is that family, as we define it, might act as a harbor as an individual shifts and expands the narrative after loss.